I've sampled, tasted, and seen.

I’ve sampled…

Love, hate, jealousy, anger, compassion, humor, peace, tranquility, excitement, fear, nervousness, embarrassment, anxiety, confusion, engagement, depression, loneliness, exhilaration, community, lifted-spirits, care, concern, grace, patience, exhaustion, humility, arrogance, and each of these energies shaped me. I’ve fought with each of them, wrestled and battled with each of them, and even when it made zero sense to embrace some of them, I still did.

I’ve tasted…

Sweet, sour, salty, rich, decadent, savory, earthy, bitter, smooth, burning, and each of these palate testers, shaped me. The ability to taste is a gift and it allows for such depth in the experience of life’s nourishment.

I’ve seen…

Clouds, leaves, trees, skies, rainbows, waterfalls, waves, oceans, lakes, rivers, streams, puddles, islands, mountains, deserts, plains, birth, death, disease, health, animals, canyons, valleys, trenches, and each of these gifts from our planet come with a memory, an experience, an adventure.

I’m experiencing…

Life. And there’s so much more to experience. I wish for each of us to wake each day with a curiosity, a willingness to adventure, and the blessings to keep our eyes, ears, taste buds, and hearts wide open. As Dr. Seuss once said, “Oh the places you’ll go.”

God bless all of you- and may He send peace to you during your times on this planet.

Much love- Trav

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The Boy who had to make noise...

He was taught at a young age that impressions matter, so year after year he worked to impress. To make those impressions, he made noise. That noise came in the form of questions to everyone he met. He asked all the people all the questions, so he could make those impressions and make them feel seen and heard, but he didn’t share his motives.

The impressions he made continued and so did his unwillingness to say what he truly wanted. He continued to ask questions to everyone encountered, yet he silently started drowning in the noise he was creating. He wouldn’t admit it to himself, but he really wanted to be seen and heard, that’s it.

All that noise being created wasn’t for them – even though he thought it was – that noise he was creating was built under selfish and conditional terms.

They took – he gave. It was symbiotic and it was not sustainable, because of the hidden conditions. The energy he created while making noise began to lose its luster as he perceived a painful truth. The truth about givers and takers. Givers give and takers take, and he realized he was a taker disguised as a giver. Pretending to be a giver, when he wanted to be a taker allowed resentment to form, and this resentment changed the tone of his noise. It became harder and darker and began to cut and slice.

That gentle and curious nature of the giver was drowning in the selfish noise of the taker. He hadn’t been truly curious. He wanted to be seen and was asking questions solely to receive questions in return, and it was that conditional curiosity that led to the gasping and drowning.

 Irony struck. Life threw curveballs and he didn’t want to drown, he wanted to thrive. It was in that moment, his last breath before dipping below the surface that the realization of the power of being a giver lifted him up. Being a giver fuels curiosity, which sparks listening and that listening saves lives. The willingness to see and hear those around him without the condition of being seen or heard in return allowed for peace. After years of being a taker in hiding, he learned that becoming an unconditional giver lifted that true curiosity and his listening allowed learning. Becoming an unconditional giver saved the taker.

God bless all of you- and may He send peace to you during your times on this planet.

Much love- Trav

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Gifts.

We receive them for birthdays, baptisms, during the holidays, for retirements and a host of other occasions, don’t we? Gifts play an interesting role in my life – how about yours? I’ve always enjoyed the planning that can come along with gift giving… thinking about what could be given to express appreciation, love – you know the drill.

November is the month of “giving thanks” in the United States and it is also the month when my wife and I celebrate our birthdays (November 24th for her – November 29th for me). This time of the year is always my favorite – not because of my birthday (or hers) – although birthdays are still crazy fun. It’s my favorite because there is a lifted spirit in the air and people seem to embrace the energy that comes with gratitude and giving – it’s infectious and uplifting.

So… as I think about gifts for my teammates at work, for my wife on her birthday, for my friends and family during the Christmas season – I also spent some time this week and thought about what I want for my 49th birthday. As I figured it out – I started to wonder if this gift idea might also be good for all of you, this year.

It’s the gift of turning the page. The gift of respecting the learnings from the past and embracing an intentional focus on today and the future. It’s a gift of self-love, so that we can become the truest versions of ourselves, which in turn creates such a good experience for those around us. I’ve been working, since 2008, to surrender to the reality that I’m doing the absolute best I can, while still enjoying my time on earth. I’m learning and growing daily – and I know you are too, even if you don’t feel it or believe as you read this. You all deserve love, honor, respect, care, compassion, adventure, peace, and the growth that comes from the daily work you put into your life.

The ultimate gift, from my perspective, is giving love to yourself, so that you can rain that beautiful energy on everyone and everything around you. That’s what I’m giving myself this year and for the rest of the years that I’m blessed to be on this planet. I wish the same for all of you.

Happy Thanksgiving and love is on its way to you now…

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